Ok women I’ve already talked to you about this but now I’m talking to the fellas out there. STOP IT! Stop being clingy to girls. Besides cheating that is one of the quickest ways to get dumped. Why because it makes you look weak and lame. Women are like cats give us something to chase and we have a blast if what we want is right there we will just become uninterested. And in all honesty girls want to date men. now this doesn’t mean you have to act like a distant ass hole but don’t be all up under her because she will think something is mentally wrong with you. One time I dated this guy for like a month. We lived 45 minutes away from each other. when he organized our first date he wanted to drive to my city and take me to dinner (nice) but then didn’t want to drive home and thus wanted to stay at my place (not happening). We are not that close I don’t know you hit that road. When I noticed that he was starting to get clingy later on in the relationship I started distancing myself from him. In his mind the relationship was already years in advance he was talking about what our kids would be like and crap and all that’s going through my mind is ABORT THE MISSION ABOUT PULL UP PULL UP HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM WE’RE GOING DOWN REPEAT WE ARE GOING DOWN. So once I started ignoring him he began to text me.
“Babe what up?”
“Girl what are you doing?!”
“Why are you not picking up your phone!”
“Answer my text!!!!”
And my reply after 10 more messages like that….
“What do you mean stop where have you been”
“You are annoying the shit out of me!”
“Well you won’t return any of my text”
“I was asleep it’s 2AM”
“But Babe I called you”
“Look you are doing the most right now”
“If I wanted to deal with a clingy lil bitch I would just be a lesbo and go get me one.”
Long story short he never texted me again and I have yet to date a pisces after that. But men need to understand we like you to be manly and give enough but take as well. If you are constantly giving us attention and gifts and messages we will eventually go crazy an yearn for that guy who makes us feel like we have something to live for rather than you getting on our nerves about the most stupid trivial BS. Especially guys if you are trying to tame a bad girl. You need to understand we don’t like easy we like the hard route because then its like catching bigfoot rather than catching a squirrel.